What to do if you really suspect your child may be using drugs
The first principle is to keep calm and check your facts. Are you sure? Have a look at 'Can a parent tell if their child is using drugs'. Remember it is important to communicate with your youngster, rather than just trying to spot the 'hidden signs and symptoms'. Likewise, if you have found a suspicious substance or object, look at the 'Different Drugs' section in this Guide, but take care not to jump to the wrong conclusion.
You will also need to inform yourself about drugs and their use. If you rush straight off to tell your youngster about the horrors of drug use you could find yourself in the uncomfortable situation of realising that they know more about it than you do.
Try not to give in to the fear or anger Instead, give yourself time to think and to keep calm. Create some space and time for yourself. What is it that really demands an instant response? Of course, if there is a youngster flat out on the floor, then swift action is certainly needed (See A Survivor's Guide - Basic First Aid). Most other situations can wait a bit while you get your own thoughts sorted out.
Source: A Parent's Guide to Drugs, Jersey Health Promotion Department
